Since this is my second but his first i am thinking about a very small wedding for just close family and friends about 30-40 people.....would love to do a beach ceremony and a winery reception. Any suggestions in South Jersey? I am also thinking of just doing a very lite menu or almost just doing something along the lines of how you would setup a cocktail hour, just longer of course! trying to keep my total budget under 10k (ok stop laughing)