This will be my 2nd wedding and my FI's first. I have kept my married last name and my maiden name as my middle name. He and I dated 26 years ago when I was in HS and he in college. We are planning and paying for our own wedding so the invitation will not have any parents' names on it. He would like me to have only my maiden name on the invitation (which is how he knew me and also to not have my past husband's last name on it). I am torn because I understand what he wants but all of my friends currently know me by my married name. I will be taking his last name when we are married.