I know because I am a mature, responsible person who should not be hurt over something so petty, because ultimately it is not about me, but am I the only second bride that is hurt that much of her family is declining attending her wedding. My FI and I pretty much sent out the same amount of invites for his family, and for mine. Everyone of his family has RSVP'd and accepted, and nearly half of my invites have declined either by RSVP or a phone call or email. I love that his family is being so supportive and so excited, but up until I got the RSVP from my parents I wasn't even sure they were going to show up. We had a small guest list to begin with, just 50 of our closest family and friends, 25 from each side, but then his family started to add guests, and so the number has reached a total of 78, we have 71 RSVP, verbal and written, 52 of those are FI family and friends, and I guess when I was doing the numbers today for the final count to send the vendors, I started to feel just a little bummed. Thanks for reading my rant. I just need to vent about it, and see how petty I am feeling right now.
Trish and Adam 10-09-10
78 Invited so far!
66 Are ready to party!
11 Will be missing out!
1 What are you doing already!