between my ex and his ex...we wont get a head in life...unless we sacrifice and struggle.
my ex...he is an alchoholic. (i dont let him have the kids unless i know its safe...and the police, child protective services and laywers are standing by) but he gets a job, starts paying child support and lasts about 6 months. then he loses it, drinks his life away ignores the kids for roughly 3 to 6 months. then cant afford alchohol so he stops, gets sober, comes back into the kids lives...starts looking for a job...but has not paid child support in months ($1100 is a lot of money to have to lose for that long) and in the meantime, the kids are sad, at times they have to see daddy drunk (i kick him out, but they still see he is drunk in that 5 min. my kids arent stupid) we are struggling to make ends meet etc. my fi has to step up a be a daddy and a financial supplier for all of us...plus he pays child support.
his ex, mother of his son. she is a drug addict. child protective services ignore the problem. laywers in wv apperently are crap...and they tell her 2 days before hand when she is getting a drug test...so she passes always.
my step son has come hme now twice with lice. once before i met them. he had it for 2 months!! this time, he came here for a week...and apperently had it. could have given it to all of us in the house, me, my 3 and my fi. and apperently this is something that happens alot. he is not a dirty child...but i feel he has to be treated like one...cuz he brings home crap like lice (we got lucky...not one of us got it)
if she injects needles...i got to worry about my precious step son getting aids etc. she is a neglectful mother who wont cure the lice so we wil have to trreat him again this weekend...etc. and she cares more about drugs then her child...she is neglectful. i wonder every week what he will bring home from her dirtyness. ugh!! its so frustrating.