My future husband and I were both high school sweethearts and reunited. He had been divorced for over 15 years but mine was more recent and more shocking to my family. All my family loved my ex who I was married to for almost 16 years. Anyhow in planning our wedding I am battling with another family member who changed his wedding to a week away from ours. Now family has to chose as the weddings are across the country from another. When I speak to my mother about this or any other wedding issue she implies that it is my second wedding and I shouldn't expect much. It is really getting to me considering my sister though she was much younger had two lavish weddings. And her second was just as special as the first. Am I being too sensitive?