I got an email from a mutual friend of ours that read (in part)
"...I expressed to you that i thought you guys where rushing things like getting marryed and i saw where you stand about the wedding i know ppl that have received an invite for the occation but i dident recieve 1 so as far as i know we are no longer friends ."
now i have not sent out invites only save the dates and hers is in the stack beside my computer that havent gone out yet. As she states above she does not approve of our marriage and has told me before she does not wish to attend. Her daughter was going to be our flower girl then she said no so im very confused here all together.