My BFF got married last Oct and is getting married again this June. She wants a big shower and bachelorette party, and of course, all of the finances are going to fall on me. (Especially because she only has 3 girls in her wedding party and she told me they didnt help out at all last time) I go to college full time, nanny, and have chronic illnesses so not only is this a huge financial issue for me, but it's a major physical issue as well.
Is it proper etiquette to throw a shower for a 2nd marriage this close to the first marriage? Bachelorette party? Are bachelorette parties required?
If anyone has input or thoughts, I'd really appreciate it.