As I go through the traditional checklists, I've found myself wondering which ones are truly necessary the second time around. For example - my FI and I have decided not to have an engagement party, but I absolutely still want a gorgeous dress. I don't think I'll throw the bouquet at my reception (because I won't have all that many single ladies) but would love a father/daughter dance since I'm still blessed enough to have mine with me.
Which traditions are you skipping? Which ones can't you live without?