Hi Ladies, i'm new to the knot and am deed some advice if anyone has been in a similar situation.....So here goes, my ex husband and i separated in november of '09 divore was final in november of '10. The split was my decision and was very hard for both of us but i think the best thing, we got married for all the wrong reasons and just weren't a good fit. We have a four year old daughter together and he is a very good daddy, sees her all the time, really a good guy. Last summer my best guy friend of 12 years told me that he missed his chance once and wasn't going to do it again and we have been together ever since. He just proposed, and i am struggling about how to break the new to my ex because our relationship has been up and down, and has just recently gotten to a point of civility and i don't want to lose that progress. Sorry so lengthy, but any suggestions? I just don't want to hurt him or make things harder on anyone than they need to be.....