Hi Ladies, I'm new here and would love some advice dealing with some issues with my Mom from other second time brides.
A little background, I was married young (barely 22) to the boy I dated in high school, and a few years later, after realizing we weren't heading in the same direction, we divorced. I'm 28 now and engaged to a wonderful man who I can't wait to marry.
The problem is my mother and her reaction to the whole second wedding thing. She didn't seem to have too many objections to the divorce (first in our family though) and dating again, but now is acting funny about the second wedding, like "are you going to wear a wedding dress? Is that appropriate?" She makes me feel bad that I'm having another wedding. Because of this, I don't want to involve her, especially in dress shopping because I KNOW she'll say something in the salon about this being my second wedding and how I need something appropriate and all that, and I don't want to feel bad when picking out a dress! I went shopping with my sister today and we had a blast, but now I'm feeling guilty for not inviting my mom!
I guess I'm just looking for guidance about how to deal with this. The last thing I want to be thinking about as I plan this wedding is my first and I certainly don't want to feel bad that I'm having another wedding (that FI and I will be paying for!).
Sorry, that turned more into a vent than a question, but still, any input would be appreciated!
Tasha