(aka validate me)
backstory: DH and I commute almost an hour in different directions for work. Daily he asks me to phone him to let him know when I will be home. Both of our schedules change daily. I phone, every damn day.
Yesterday, he is working very late. Expected to be home by 9:30 pm, at 1045 I have been worrying for a while. (NOTE -9:30 pm is about the time we usually go to bed, due to getting up early in the AM) Start calling. Reach him & he's almost home. I am ticked off, since that means he was on the road close to the time he could expect me to be heading to bed, and he didn't bother to call me to tell me he was just leaving. With that info, I would have gone to bed & not worried.
He's astonished that I am so upset. We stay up and argue for hours. His answer: you didn't ask me to call. I think he should have called as a courtesy without being asked. He thinks I am asking him to read my mind . I am cranky & tired & still ticked off. What do you say?