Not sure if there are any other posts about this, but I didn't really know what to look for. So my FI has been married and is avoiding anything that could possibly resemble his last wedding. I'm totally OK with that but where is the line? How much do I avoid and change just because he has done it before? One good thing is making decisions with him (ie cake tastings, visiting receptions halls, gift registries and just general decisions) are all things he's never done! Also, what else might he be going through his head so I can honor and respect him during this time? I'm deathly afraid people from his family or friends won't come just because they have already "done that for him." Will they just think of me as "one of the them" instead of his one and only beloved? I just don't want him to be hurt and I know I shouldn't care what people think of me but its so hard not to! Any suggestions are much appreciated!
Thanks!