I tried to do a search for this topic, but the search function is down apparently, so forgive me if this has been addressed before, which I'm sure it has.
Second wedding for both my fiance and me. Do we have to invite all our relatives like we did the first time? I figure the answer is yes, but when my sister got married again, my mother told her brother and his wife that they shouldn't feel like they had to come (they live 4 hours away from her), since they had come to the first one...
I'm a Southern girl, my whole family lives in SC, NC, GA and AL...and I'm getting married in NY, which is where I live. I don't want to offend or hurt anyone, but I'm not sure what to do here. I mean, even inviting people just to be polite will cost money. As we're paying for this ourselves, I don't want to spend any more money on invitations than I absolutely have to. And I'm almost positive that most if not all of my AL relatives won't come.
Thoughts?