I'm getting married in sept 2012, it will be both our 2nd marriages. All my family went to my first wedding, I'm not really close with some of my aunts and uncles, but I'm close to some of my other aunts and uncle. So i don't want to not invite people, but i don't want people to feel like they have to go. My feeling will not get hurt if they don't go.Actually i really don't want them to go.So how do I hint that they DON'T have to go to the wedding?