I just moved from Chicago after living there for three years. Most of my bm are out of state, all but one. So all of them are having to fly to the wedding and buy a dress. I know a lot of them do not have an extrevgant amount of money. I am doing a destination wedding at the beach. My family has a couple of beach cottages.
Bottom Line:
I offered my BM with my parents permission, one of our cottages for during the long wedding weekend. (Thurs-Sun). I am also picking them up from the airport and bringing them to the beach with me and then giving them my car to use to get them back to my home and the airport (4 hour drive). My mom is upset and says that I have been way to generous to my BM and should not get them a nice gift. (like less than $10 now) She says that is not proper ettiquite for me to do all that. My dresses were $160, I asked them to buy $30 shoes but I have not asked anything else. I even bought there pink sashes ($20 a piece to go with their dress) I also paid for full one girls dress cuz she couldn't afford it and asked me to.
Have I done to much should I just let the weekend the beach be their gift, should I not get them a nice gift like my mom says?