I"m getting married next Oct and I will be 29. My bridesmaids range in age from 18 to 32 and my Matron of Honor will be 46 we have been the best of friends for the last 4 years and she was the only person I wanted to ask to be my matron of honor when I first got engaged. When I asked her she said yes and she was honored to do it, but now she is kinda backing out. she feels like shes to old and all the bridesmaids dresses are to young for he and she's worried she'll be an eyesore . I understand her point and to me it sounds like she really doesnt want to do it because she feels uncomfortable but then she tells me if I really want her to be the MOH then she'll swallow her pride and do it. I just dont know what to do. I'm a little hurt because I feel like she really doesnt want to do it now. I just would like some advice on how I should handle the situation. Please help!!