Hi Moms. Maybe you can give me some advice. I have been engaged for just about 2 months, and am getting married in July 2010. I'm basically just starting to get really thick into planning everything. On top of that, my brother, his wife, and their two kids just moved to within an hour of my parents. My mom is constantly inviting my SIL to do things with us (SIL and I aren't really friends, but we're civil), and is constantly going over to SIL's house. Also, my brother and SIL are around almost every weekend staying with my parents (I'm a college student and am going to school in my hometown, so I live in a room at my parents house to save money). All that to say...I feel like I am the new daughter in law, and my SIL is now the daughter. My mother hasn't even asked me how the wedding planning is going. She knows we've gotten our e-pics done but hasn't asked to see them. But yet, she's always talking about SIL. I'm too hurt to even mention this to my mom, because I know she'll just call me selfish for wanting the attention. What do I do? I want my mom to be MY MOM! And I want her to be excited for me. Any ideas?