I am getting married in about 2 months and it appears that my MOH wants nothing to do with any planning and is reluctant to help. She is even being flaky on the Bachelorette party planning so one of my bridesmais have taken up the slack for her and a good friend has been chipping in to help as well. How do you handle this type of situation? I wrote her a long e-mail explaining my feelings and how things are looking on my end and asked if everything was okay with her. We are both better at getting thoughts/feelings out in writting rather than face-to-face discussion. Im so frustrated, she already knows the trials my future MIL is putting my through, why would she act flaky when in the beggining she was so excited!?