So I am currently my mother's maid of honor and am helping her plan her wedding. The wedding is in September, but my boyfriend and I have been talking about getting married (not the same day). What if he proposes early in the year, and I am now in charge of planning our wedding as well as helping my mom with hers. Would this be considered rude? Should I put off planning our wedding until after my mother's wedding? Can I do both at once and maintain my sanity?