Moms and Maids
Where to begin...when my fiance and i got engaged, it seemed that i knew exactly who I wanted to be my bridesmaids, so i asked them...all 8 of them. Then we pushed the wedding back a full year and some of the girls that I had asked...I don't either see anymore or they are starting to show their "true colors" of who they really are. The first is a friend whose wedding I was the MOH in in July. She constanly makes me feel guilty about my choice of where the rehearsel dinner is because its being thrown by a friend of mine in the wedding party that she hates and she thinks that I should change the venue because its going to make her uncomfortable. She also consistantly makes horrid remarks about this person and asks why I even asked them because I know that she doesn't like them. Then there are two girls that I've asked that I don't see at all anymore and it feels awkard asking them to buy dresses and spend all this money when they are just more of an aquaintence now then a good friend. I have had some people tell me to just let them all know that we are cutting the wedding party down and offer to let them have a special job on the big day but this doesn't sit right with me. But I also don't want to be stressed out about this...especially with the "friend" who thinks I should do everything to make her happy. Any ideas?
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