So in 47 days I will be getting married. And up till today my mom has made this whole planning and finalization a nightmare. She pretty much tried taking over all my decisions. And on more than one occassion she has promised to help out with something and then if I don't agree with her she says no and takes back her helping. And always in the past I've said something back or argued with her, which is what she wanted cause she LOVES attention by making me miserable. Our last squabble was over something so stupid. It all was from a joking comment by me about a song that she posted. Which in turn I got a nasty email from her about that. But for the first time in 26 years I didn't say a word. I didn't call her or email...nothing. She didn't like that too much. Then the next thing she did was say she wasn't going to my bachelorette party. I still said nothing. Well the final word came from her today that she is not coming to my wedding at all. And you know what? I feel like I can breathe now. And I'm not at all mad! It surprises me that I am not mad. But I have a lot of family that is done dealing with her and have stepped up and helped out and have been very supportive that her presence won't be missed. Her loss not mine. I won't lie and say I wish I had more of a supportive mother who actually acted like one, but I won't be stressed out the day of the wedding wondering if something will tick of my mother. Just felt like getting that out.