I'm having a problem with choosing bridesmaids. My wedding was originally planned for October 16, 2010 but at the last minute had to be postponed. We are now planning for this upcoming October 2011. For my 2010 wedding I had 2 bridesmaids & 1 matron of honor. They already bought their dresses. In December 2010 one of my bridesmaids got engaged and is planning her wedding for this September 2011. She has chosen bridesmaids and did not ask me to be one of them. Apparently our friendship isn't as great as I thought. My dilemma is, for my wedding this October 2011, what do I do with this girl?? I don't want her as my bridesmaid anymore, so do I just send her an invitation when the time comes? It seems really rude to exclude her from my wedding party considering she's already paid for her bridesmaid dress. But that's the only good reason I can think of anymore for letting her be in my wedding. What do I do?