I feel like my bride is getting the bridesmaid dresses too soon. She was engaged and we were shopping for bridesmaid dresses about a year and a half ago. Then when it came to buying her wedding dress it came out that she and her FI might not get married. Sure enough a few months later they called it off and I feel like I dodged a bullet not getting my bridesmaid dress that night.
They worked things out after some months and are datng again. About two months ago the grapevine was saying she might get married this summer or fall. I started getting messages about what the bridesmaids will wear. Her and her boyfriend had a party and we all there a few weeks ago; I thought he might re-propose or they would announce their wedding date, nothing.
Today she sent me an urgent text about needing my size and buying a dress. They don't have a date. They aren't technically engaged, she hasn't gotten her dress yet, and I feel like even if the wedding comes together in 6-9 months or longer it's odd to get our dresses so early.
I don't want to sound unsupportive. I honestly do think they will eventually get married but wondering why no one can say when this wedding might happen.