So- I asked below if it was okay to have two matrons of honor. I feel so much better hearing you all say its a go.
Now I have to get into more detail- and ask: How do I ask that? Do I say... will you be my co-matron of honor? lol. I am sending a very nice handmade package to my girls to ask them. so it wont be in person. so if it just reads will you be my MOH- I worry they will be all hyped up and feeling special, then later when I say there is a second MOH, it might be a little bit of a slap and bring them down a notch. I dont want that. but if I say will you be my MOH number two, that sounds horrible! LMBO