So when we first got engaged in April, I mentioned having my FMIL come dress shopping with me and my crew. She has two sons, and I thought it would be a nice gesture, since she wouldnt get a chance to go dress shopping ever.
Then came december, and I am finally going.... but I recently decided I didnt want a huge group to go. I just wanted a small group that I could be comfortable around. We were also going to have to do two salons in one day due a bunch of other scheduling reasons, so I felt that that was too much to ask of people to endure.
Long story short, as the day approached, I did not ask my FMIL. I came home excited to tell her I found the dress, and could sense a cold vibe coming from her, that she was trying to hide. My fiance just told me that he thinks she is hurt by it.
and... did I mention we live with my inlaws... so its extra awkward...
I need help figuring out what to say or do to smooth this over. do i bring it up to her at all? I feel awful. I am very sensitive. I do not like to hurt people. So this is eating me up. Any ideas?