An update on my Bridezilla...I was thrown out of the wedding!
I oringinally posted about three weeks ago about how I was dealing with a Bridezilla, and needed advice on if I should step down as my friend's MOH due to the way she was treating me. Everyone who responded gave great advice, and I gave myself a few weeks to think about and write out some of my thoughts. I decided in the end that I was going to not go to her bachelorette party; the party was getting so expensive and I couldn't afford to spend all the money driving/flying to her hometown to attend, and then turn around two weeks later and do the same thing for her wedding. So essentially, I could just afford to attend her wedding weekend.
So, I told her that I couldn't afford to attend her bachelorette party and she sent me a message and basically threw me out of her wedding and told me that I can "shove my invitation up my ass." So I have been offically stripped of my MOH title and am not even attending as a guest. I just told her "Okay, sounds good. I will not be there." She sent me another message to basically tell me I am a bad friend, but I haven't responded being as I was kicked out of her wedding. There is nothing more to say to her; except maybe to suggest that she seeks mental health treatment for being insane.
Honestly, this is a GOOD thing for me. A weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. Plus I learned how NOT to behave if I ever get engaged and start planning a wedding...haha.
Thanks everyone who responded for the advice. And who knows? I am currently in a great relationship; maybe I will be back on this board soon...with a POSITIVE post about my bridal party...and to set any future bridezilla straight!