My mom has been so difficult lately, and I don't know how to handle it! Everytime I bring up the wedding, she has something critical or negative to say, and I'm starting to feel like no matter what I do, I piss her off. I know that she and my dad are paying for it, and I think they should have some say in the wedding. The problem is, I know there are some things she doesn't like, and it's like she's trying so hard NOT to be controlling and bossy that she's bottling everything inside and it comes out in other places. I don't want her bossing me around about what I should do for my wedding, but at the same time, I don't want her pissed off all the time because she doesn't like something. I'd rather she just say something so I can either fix it or tell her to get over it.
I want my mom to be happy at my wedding, I don't want her to be miserable and pissed off. How do I let her know this without giving her total control over my wedding day?