OK, so my fiance and I met through a set-up. He works with my cousin's wife and she thought we would make a great couple and she was right :-) Now I'm not sure whether or not I should ask her to be a bridesmaid. I already have 6 bridesmaids (including my matron of honor) and it looks like my fiance is only having 4 groomsmen (including his best man). He is very close with her husband (my cousin) and is having him be a groomsmen and may even ask him to be his best man so I feel really bad not having his wife be a bridesmaid. My cousin's wife is awesome, not only did she set my fiance and I up but I also hang out with her pretty frequently now that we live around the corner from each other. I definitely want her to be part of our wedding but I'm just not sure how. We're having a Rabbi perform the wedding ceremony but we were thinking of asking my cousin's wife to have a part in the ceremony, I'm not sure what but maybe the rabbi can let her do something? Is that a good idea? Should I ask her to be a bridesmaid too? Do you think she'll be hurt if I don't?