I am 22 and going to graduate with Bachelors in Education degree in December 2010.
My goal before I was engaged was to continue with my masters to be a principal.
I have been dating my fiancé since we were sophomores in high school, totaling in 6 years of dating. FYI we are both virgins.
However my mother wants us to wait to get married till I am
DONE with masters and not work as a teacher till I get my masters.
If we do this, we would be together about 8 years before we could get married. It is not an issue of money because my fiancé is an electrical engineer, he is also 22.
We do not want to wait that long to get married.
If it were up to us we would get married June 2011 and I would teach for a few years then start my masters. My dad is ok with this option.
But keep in mind my parents are paying for the wedding.
So my question is how to explain to my mother our reasons for not waiting and how to explain to her that we want to get married June 2011 not when I get done with Masters.
Please help!!