My parents are footing the bill for mine & my fiance's rather large wedding. Partially because they are traditional and also because my huge family makes up for 85% of the guest list. My mom and I have been tackling and taking care of wedding duties since I got engaged in Feburary. We have gotten a lot accomplished and I'm so happy with the way things are coming along.
My "problem" is that my soon to be mother-in-law, who lives in another state, is feeling left out. This is my fiance's 2nd marriage and my first. His mom was very hurt the first time he got married because it was a quickie court house wedding that she was not even aware was happening.
I don't know what I can do to help her feel more a part of things. Weekly phone call updates? Emails update with pictures, info about what we've been doing? Your ideas/suggestions are appreciated.