This is a hypothetical...
I have my four BMs (including MOH) picked, but will not be asking them until this summer. 3 of them (including MOH) live in the New England area where we all live and the wedding will take place. The other BM lives in CA.
What I am wondering is IF the BMs throw me a Bridal Shower and/or Bachelorette Party my BM in CA will not be able to attend.
Does the CA BM pay for the events even though she will not be able to attend them (that is IF they occur)?
**I know I am wicked EARLY on this topic but it was something I randomly just thought of.