Ok I'll appoligise now cause I'm going to vent about my mum and YES I love her but seriously.... Ok when I got engaged she wasn't thrilled, yes I'm only 20 but I'm going to be nearly 22 when we get married. Booked a reception venue she keeps telling us we made a mistake because we didn't ask her opinion, it's the best deal for the money FH and I can pay. Took her to see my dream dress... Told me I look prego and I should keep looking I think it's slimming. Dropped the wedding talk for a few months cause I was over the comments, took her to a bridal expo today whatever I like she hates, she picked up more reception info, already paid for half at the place I want. Her comment just checking other options. Told her today also we chose the park to be married in since she didn't want me married in a church, "oh a parks a waste of money" She took me dress shopping again picking out every dress I hate telling me try it on so I did a few to keep her happy then couldn't understand why I said I didn't like them on. I'm sorry to vent and be abit all over the place but how do I tell her to back off abit, I know what I want and she's going polar opposites and just doesn't understand.