I just found out that my FI was planning a surprise B-Day party for me in about 2 weeks. It was supossed to be at my moms house. When he called my mom to talk about details and to see if she needed more $ for anything she tells him they need to cancel the party because her sister in law just got engaged and they are having their engagement party the same day as my suprise party. I feel really hurt by this. My FI has been planning this for a couple months and the SIL just got engaged a week ago.
My mom has been acting very distant the last couple months and does not act very excited about my wedding. We have always been very close and this upsets me very much.
When I called to talk to her about it she acted like it was no big deal and I got very upset and started crying and hung up on her. I havent talked to her since. That was 3 days ago. Do I have a right to be upset or am I being a big baby?