I am 42 years old and FINALLY found the man of my dreams and we're getting married in May. My maid of honor has been married twice and is dating someone new and after just 2 months of dating, she wants to get engaged. I am sad because I have been through her 2 failed marriages and 2 children and showered her year after year for those occasions and it is finally MY turn and she wants to suddenly get enagaged to a guy she's been seeing for a very short time. #1 - I don't think this is the best thing for her, she should proceed with caution before getting engaged AGAIN. and #2 - it will upstage my day that I have waited for for 42 years. I told her I realize I sound selfish and I'm ok with that. I've had years of selfless showering her and other friends and this is my turn to have my ONE moment and i don't want to share it with her engagement. What do you think?