Over the past couple of months, I've had several people (NOT in the wedding party) extend the offer of "if you need anything at all, let me know!" Is that just a polite way of saying "I'm excited about the wedding!" or a real offer of help? I can think of several things that would be helpful right before the wedding (e.g. putting escort tags on mason jars, which we are renting and can only pick up the day before), but I don't want to contact someone who wasn't really sincere. Also, should I disregard offers that were made a long time ago, such as when we just got engaged (over a year ago, now)? And if I do ask somebody to help, should I be there when they do whatever it is? The point would be them taking over something that I don't really have the time to do, but I don't want to be rude. I just don't want to assume that someone is willing to do errands, etc when they were just being polite.