I know the norm is that you let the moms wear what they want because they're capable of dressing themselves. However, my mom wants to wear a big giant hat (I don't know why) that she plans on wearing through the ceremony. It basically has a huge brim that goes all the way around. I kind of think this is rude to the guests behind her who won't be able to see around her. Am I crazy for thinking this? I haven't said anything to her, but I'm curious if this is an exception to the "let them dress themselves" rule. As a guest, how would you feel, considering the mom would be sitting in the front row? Not that big a deal, or should I try and talk to her (gently) about it?