I am a bridesmaid in my best friends wedding, we have known each other for 3 years and get along fabulously. The 4 other bridesmaids have known her much longer and know each other well. The other women are in agreement of the role and jobs that come with being a bridesmaid, while i have some concerns. These roles to them include: throwing and planning a bridal shower, throwing and planning a bachelorette party, contributing equally financially. (My husband is the best man so everything we contribute is doubled.) I have explained my financial situation multiple times to the MOH and she constantly ignores me. Its not that i dont want to contribute equally, i just cant at this point in my life. If they had normal goals for these events i wouldn't complain but they constantly brag about not being able to stick within their budgets, like the amount of money they spend determines their devotion to the bride.
I am being harassed, yelled at, name-called and treated with passive aggressive behavior at every turn. I know what your thinking, there has to be more to this story, i honestly wish there was! I wish i knew what i had done, i spend hours crying because all my good hearted efforts are met with resentment. Meanwhile the wedding is 2 weeks away i just don't know how much more of the abuse i can take. I havent approached the bride, she already has enough to worry about. How should i deal with these unreasonable women?