My parents are paying for my wedding (which I'm incredibly grateful for) so my mom is (rightfully) very involved in the planning process. The problem is she has no idea how much a wedding costs. She's honestly a little cheap, so I'm doing a ton of DIY stuff to keep costs down and to add some fun projects we can do together.
However, one thing that I don't want to do myself is the reception music. I've decided to hire a DJ, but my mom thinks a DJ should cost $100 for the whole reception! I haven't even bothered to tell her that the experienced DJs I've looked at cost closer to $1000-$2000. As soon as I tell her, she won't want to hear it and will just want to find someone cheaper, but I'm afraid I'll end up with a terrible DJ yelling at everyone to do the Hokey Pokey. Am I crazy for wanting to spend more money on someone who I know will do what I want and not be cheesy? It's not that we can't afford it; my mom just won't want to pay. How can I tell her that her pricing ideas are unrealistic without making her mad? HELP!!!