My mother and I don't get a long and haven't for most of my life (product of a divorced family), so when I got engaged she naturally wanted to help. He version of helping is taking over EVERYTHING!! I've tried to be nice the past 8 months in letting her help plan, but she completely took the bridal shower away from my bridesmaids and even made nasty comments about me at the shower to my friends and co-workers. She and my stepdad just insulted me the other day about hand delivering some invitations and started calling me "ghetto bride." I only have 5 weeks to go, but their nasty comments and added stress is driving me insane! Can anybody help??