And this time I promise I won't write out of emotion. This is more me freaking out! So bridesmaid number two just told me she's pregnant. That leaves me with 2 non pregnant BMs (for now), one that is due 10 days before the wedding, and one due 5 days after!
I already told her that yes, I want her in the wedding if she feels up to it (because she asked me if I still did, and said she understood if I didn't.) And I told her we'd have a chair if needed! She said she plans to be there unless she's in the hospital or like, one day post partum.
My next issue is that she is also my cake maker. I forgot to ask her about it in the excitement of our phone call, and I don't want to just text her and ask because I want her to remain excited and not worry about it. But what do I do? She's doing it as basically our wedding gift, so we haven't budgeted for a cake (other than what we still plan to pay her, which is way less than someone else.) If she makes it to her due date, I'm sure she will make it no problem. I just worry if she will feel up to it otherwise...well, I know her and she will still make it as long as she's not in labor, but there is a small chance she could be.
So I'm half considering seeing if our venue is open to push our wedding either up or back. What do you think? We haven't sent out STDs yet and other than the venue, there's no reason we couldn't move it up...