I chose to have two maid of honors, one is my best friend and roommate from college, the other is my cousin whom I grew up with. I want to have my friend (who is also catholic (as my FI and I are) and married) to sign the marriage certificate for my FI and I at the wedding. I also want her to give the speech at the reception because she knows us as a couple much better. Any my aunt who lives in town (both roomie and cousin live out of town) is hosting the shower, so that isn't needed either. What can I have my cousin do so she doesn't feel that she is not doing anything?