My fiance and I feel akward about the garter removal. Neither of us likes to have the spotlight on us and the garter removal show is a little too much for us. If we skip the removal should we skip the toss as well? And if we do skip the toss would it be weird to still have the bouquet toss? I'd like to do the bouquet toss for sure, I just need opinions on how to handle the garter removal/toss.