I have a dilemma on my hands...
My biological dad has been in and out of my life since I was little. (He's been more out than in, that's for sure.) My step-father was more like a dad to me than my biological father. Unfortunately, my step-father passed away 8 years ago. He would have been the one walking me down the aisle. Before he passed, I asked him who he would like to walk me down the aisle. He said, "I would like your oldest brother to walk you."
How do I tell my biological father that my brother is going to walk me down the aisle? I don't want to create a huge argument with my dad over this. I'm kind of worried that if I tell him that my brother is walking me, then my dad won't show up at all.