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I don't want my dad to walk me down the aisle.

I have a dilemma on my hands...
My biological dad has been in and out of my life since I was little.  (He's been more out than in, that's for sure.)  My step-father was more like a dad to me than my biological father.  Unfortunately, my step-father passed away 8 years ago.  He would have been the one walking me down the aisle.  Before he passed, I asked him who he would like to walk me down the aisle.  He said, "I would like your oldest brother to walk you." 
How do I tell my biological father that my brother is going to walk me down the aisle?  I don't want to create a huge argument with my dad over this.  I'm kind of worried that if I tell him that my brother is walking me, then my dad won't show up at all.

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