Hi everyone, I am new here. My FI is Slovenian, and his parents have very traditional views. We are really butting heads about some issues. In particular, the head table. I am not having a wedding party. I feel very strongly about having a sweetheart table-- I would feel this way even with a wedding party. His parents have never heard of it before, and think the idea is ridiculous. His mother thinks that FI's brother and sister-in-law sit at the head table, along with FI's father, my father, and my sister and her "life partner". When his father realized how it would look to have two women sitting together, he said that my sister will jsut sit alone at the head table. Obviously, this is incredibly offensive to my sister, her partner, and and me. My mom also hates the idea of just my dad at the head table, because she would like to sit with her husband, and the idea that the man sits at the head table but the woman does not is very offensive to her. I REALLY just want the two of us to sit together, for obvious reasons listed above. Any advice? TIA, I really appreciate it.