My DF asked me if I planned on changing my name when we get married. I told him that I don't know. I asked him how he felt about it, and he said, "I want you to do whatever you want."
However, he has asked me repeatedly if I have decidednwhat I am going to do (BTW, our wedding is in June of 2011). I have a feeling that this may be a bigger deal to him than he is letting on.
I really don't think I want to change my name. I'll be 34 when we get married, and I can't imagine going by any other name. Any ideas how to explain to him?