I have just chosen my flower girl, who is the perfect age. Her brother is also a really great kid that I love to pieces. I'd like him to be my ringbearer, but he's going to be 10 years old when I have my wedding (not mention that he's very mature for his age). I've heard some say that I should just go with whatever I want, but it almost seems demeaning to him to give him a job usually delegated to the 6-and-under crowd.
So, what's proper and what's modern? Opinions please!