I was asked a very interesting question today and I would like the Knot Community's ideas.
Older bride (with 5 kids, and their spouses and kids) is marrying an older man (with 11 kids, and their spouses and kids). This comes to roughly 30 kids, around 30 grandkids between them. They want to know how they can have the families blend in the time up to and after the event (rehearsal dinner/reception), and show that symbolicly in the ceremony.
TWIST: These family know eachother. They aren't particularly enemies, they just aren't eachothers' biggest fans. The kids from both sides say, not verbatim, but essentially, "Yeah, we'll come to the wedding, but those people are kind of weird. Do we have to actually mix with them?"
How do you get THIS MANY PEOPLE to see that the other side isn't all that bad, that they can have a wonderful weekend, and blend into one gigantic family rather seamlessly? And then symbolically show that in the ceremony?
Any idea is valued!
THANKS!