So I am sure this topic has come up before, but I can't seem to find a resonable mind out of people I know. I love children, believe I will be a great mother, but I don't want any kids at the ceremony and possibly none at the reception either. I want everyone to enjoy the evening and not have to worry about where their kids are. This may sound really terrible but my question is how do you tactfully and politely ask people not to bring their children?