My husband-to-be is Dominican and I am white. His mom's side of the family speaks very little english, but his father's side is more Americanized. Are there any ways to avoid having an awkward reception/alienating anyone? I want to incorporate both cultures as much as possible to make for a fun day for everyone. I know that a lot of people say "it's your day, don't care what people think!" but if I know other people are having a bad time it will be hard for me to enjoy my day.