we are planning a very low budget, low key, relaxed wedding. We aren't having a bridal party because I don't want to deal with the drama and added worries I've seen so many of my friends go through. But I have 2 sisters I want to try to include in our ceremony somehow... My older sister is very, very tomboyish. Like it's going to be hard to get her to wear something besides jeans and a t shirt!!! So I was thinking of making her my ring bearer? She wouldn't walk down the isle with a flower girl. She would just hold our rings and give them to us in the ceremony. Is that weird? Or I was thinking of making her an usher so she feels included. THoughts?